Monday, January 5, 2009

Rebuilding Burned Bridges

Last night I asked an old friend to come back into my life. Things didn't end well with this friend over three years ago, but I'd like to believe we have matured a bit and are capable of at least being aware of each other's lives, if not interacting every day. I've missed this person terribly. I think about them several times a week at least, just wondering how they are and if there's any hope of salvaging what was once a true friendship and even partnership.

Is that possible? At the ripe-old age of 29, is it conceivable that two people who haven't known each other since before entering the adult world can have a second chance? Can mend the wounds from harsh words and painful actions? Can find the joy and lightness and easiness that was once shared between two friends?

I've done all I know how to do. I wait with bated breath for the reply, but still have peace of mind that I've done my part. I'll let you know how it goes.

2 comments:

  1. I think it all depends on the people involved. I always hope people can reconcile. Sometimes the amount of time involved just doesn't matter.

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  2. @CMG - It didn't happen. I'm still a little sad about it, but if they can't move on after over 3 years, it's definitely time for ME to move on.

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